Monday, 7 July 2014

Me...!!

I respect friendship... I love being around people... Spending time with them.... I love all that any other normal person does.. But at the same time I don't like sharing my problems at all... That doesn't make them less important though... But I just don't because I like solving it my own way.. I enjoy my space.. I live life my own way.. I don't really like to be controlled....
I will never give anyone wrong words.. If I say something, I will mean it and follow it.. I won't lie to anyone though I might end up hiding...
Its taken a hell lot of efforts to be what I am today and I like it this way...
I don't claim that this personality of mine makes me perfect or imperfect.. good or bad... right or wrong... It just makes me the person I am.. And I believe there are loads of people, who would like this person in me and stick to me throughout there lives and at the same time, I also have to come across people who will come to my life and whose frequency wouldn't match with me, hence, they will have no choice but to leave me midway and go.. Its not about wrong or right.. It's about choice.. It's about inclination..

Things I have Learn't about life

I've learned that we don't have to change friends,If we understand that friends change.

I've learned that something that you do in an instant, can give you heartache for life.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words, it may be that last time you see them.

I've learned that we are responsiable for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude, or it controls you.

I've learned that my best friend and I , can do anything or nothing and still ahve a good time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you are down, will be the one who helps you get up.

I've learned that sometimes when i am angry i have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them too, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others, but sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that just because two people argue, doesn't mean they don't love eachother. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love eachother.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secrect, it may change you life forever.

I've learned that sometimes the people that you love most in lfe, are taken from you too soon.

I've learned that you can't make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved, and the rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much i care, some people just dont care back.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and just seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in life, but who you have that counts.

I've learned that you can keep going, long after you think you can't.

I've learned that their are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that even when you feel you have no more to give, a friend cries out and you find the strength to help.

I've learned that our backgrounds and circumstances may have influenced our lives, but we are responsible for who we become...


Everyone has dreams

Everyone has dreams. Then life happens.
 And those dreams are crushed.
 People often stop doing what they did in college - sports, theatre, singing or dancing. 'I'm married and have a job and family now', they tell me.
Really? Because you have a family, you will murder your dreams? Because your job gives you a salary, you will never do the things you once loved?
A busy life may lower the flame of your dreams, but don't let the fire go out completely. A few hours a week, has to be your dream time.
Those who kill their dreams, also kill a bit of themselves.
Never make that compromise. Live life. Stay alive.


Dream Big....Set Goals...Take Actions...!!!

Your goals are the best friend you will ever have. 
Your goals won't abandon you. Everyone else might.
So, love your goals. Even if they frustrate you at times. 
They are truly yours. They will make you happy. 
They are who you are.
 Everyday, do something to get closer to your goals.
 You and your goals, that to me, is the real love story of your life.